By David Ettinger
I Wish Things Were Different
At age 63, my life is not where I want it to be. After more than 34 years as a believer, I wanted to have reached more people for Christ than I have. Working in the newspaper business for 20 years yielded many opportunities, quite a few of which I seized, but too many others I let slip by.
Being a Jewish believer in Christ, I wanted to be more of a voice to the Jewish people, though I knew opportunities would be limited living in southern New Mexico. I thought my move to Orlando would open the floodgates of Jewish evangelism, but it hasn’t.
But I know the reason for this, and it is found in Jeremiah 5:25: “Your wrongdoings have kept these away; your sins have deprived you of good.” The context is God explaining to Israel why judgment awaits her and why He is withholding blessings from her (in this case, “autumn and spring rains in season” and “regular weeks of harvest,” v. 24).
For Israel, sin had caused God to withhold the rain; for me, sin has led to subpar ministry. What about you? What has sin kept from you?
Sin Defined
“Sin” here is not just overt and obvious transgressions of sexual immorality and illegal activity; there are “lesser” sins. One such sin is neglect of God. How much time do you spend praying? How much time to you spend reading your Bible? In contrast, how much time to you spend watching television or on your computer?
How much time do you spend going to movies, sporting events, or any other form of entertainment? What kind of balance are you maintaining between the worldly and the spiritual? What should that balance be? We can’t put a number on it regarding minutes or hours, but as a Bible-believing Christian, you should be reading your Bible and spending time with God in prayer daily.
Spiritual Blessings Withheld
You understand the concept of reward and punishment. When children do well, parents reward them; when they misbehave, they are punished. When they don’t give their parents affection or attention, the parents are hesitant to bestow good things upon them. Parents often make their dissatisfaction known to their children by withholding good from them.
The same holds true regarding your relationship with God. You know He will punish you for grievous sin, but what about the “lesser” sins? What can you expect God to withhold from you? For me, number one on the list is His peace. Philippians 4:6-7 promises that when we lift our anxieties to God through prayer and with thanksgiving, He will grant us “the peace of God, which transcends all understanding.” When my ways are not right with the Lord, I feel it in the loss of peace; instead, I am filled with discomfort and agitation. It is a miserable state to be in.
Another blessing withheld when your ways are not right with God is ministry effectiveness, which I mentioned at the outset. Also, my Bible-reading time suffers. I may read my usual six to eight chapters a day, but my comprehension, attention, and the Holy Spirit’s input is lacking.
When your ways are not right with the Lord, your Bible-reading times are fruitless and unsatisfying. It is as if God is saying, “I know you seek My peace, want to serve Me effectively, and desire impactful Bible-reading times. The problem is, ‘Your wrongdoings have kept these away; your sins have deprived you of good.’”
Displeasing God also affects your physical blessings. I want to be careful here; some of God’s most precious children are dirt poor, particularly in third-world nations. But generally speaking, displeasing God plays itself out in the physical realm through financial struggles no matter your income.
Do you make a good salary and still struggle financially? Or, are you dissatisfied with life? The apostle Paul writes, “I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation” (Philippians 4:12). When you neglect God, you often lose your contentment.
Financial struggles and discontent are two ways God withholds good. Are you experiencing them?
It’s Not Too Late
Thankfully, you can turn your circumstances around quickly. Simply resolve to pray and read your Bible daily and reduce TV and computer time.
Two verses have greatly helped me. The first is Isaiah 55:7: “Let the wicked forsake their ways and the unrighteous their thoughts. Let them turn to the Lord, and he will have mercy on them, and to our God, for he will freely pardon.” I consider this to be a “salvation” verse, one aimed at unbelievers. However, it can well be applied to believers when we are walking in disobedience to God.
What I like about this verse is the “instantaneous” nature of it. On your part, you are to forsake your wickedness and rein in sinful thoughts. In return, God will immediately have mercy on you and pardon your transgressions. Once done, the path to a contented relationship with God has begun.
The second verse is Acts 3:19: “Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord.” This is another “salvation” verse that works for disobedient believers. I love the promise of “refreshing.” The word indicates something new, crisp, and gleaming. There is the sense of restoration and vitality.
Does Jeremiah 5:25 apply to you? Can God say to you: “Your wrongdoings have kept these away; your sins have deprived you of good”? If so, don’t despair. Yes, you will have to exchange your “wasted” hours for fruitful ones and your worldly endeavors for spiritual communion with God in prayer and Bible reading, but it will be worth the effort.
Resolve to do it, and do it today. Trade in your “wrongdoings” for “repentance” and let the Lord grant you “times of refreshing”!
Bruce Cooper
December 14, 2020
Hi David, I know all of which you speak of, mixed in with a lot of grace. Blessings to you and yours brother.
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dettinger47
December 14, 2020
You as well, Bruce. Thank you.
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Admin
December 14, 2020
A most excellent post. So very true. Delivered with grace, “that all may hear.”
~Angel
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dettinger47
December 14, 2020
Thank you, Angel.
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Tom
December 14, 2020
David, thanks for this “hard-hitting” post. We’re prone to go easy on ourselves as we prioritize other things ahead of our relationship with the Lord.
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dettinger47
December 14, 2020
Amen. Thank you, Tom.
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Blue Collar Theologian
December 14, 2020
More than I can list. Anger being at the top. Thanks for this necessary reminder!! Praying for Aaron and Zac!
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dettinger47
December 14, 2020
Thank you, Mandy! And I’m still praying for Chad!
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Blue Collar Theologian
December 14, 2020
Thank you, David! 🤗🤗🤗🤗
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Zama-Zoe Grace
December 14, 2020
This is the most powerful message rare taught in the church. Mine sins were going ahead of God, I have perished, sometimes I wish I could turn back the clock and start afresh. I have repented, and I know God has forgiven me; I am just suffering the consequences of my behavior. Thank you for sharing, very profound message.
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dettinger47
December 14, 2020
Thank you, Zama-Zoe, and may God’s peace comfort you!
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Lisa Beth
December 14, 2020
Such important points here David, esp for us in these end times. Sometimes the sin of complacency is the worst, and often masked over. It’s a terrible thought to be vomited out of God’s mouth! May the Lord stir our passion and keep us red hot!
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dettinger47
December 14, 2020
Amen, Lisa Beth!
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heavensreef
December 15, 2020
I must confess the “distractions” of this world are my sin. It is a struggle to live in it and not to be “of” it. I am committed to all my morning time and desire to be more committed during the rest of the day. Thanks for this reminder and how when we feel far from GOD it is not HIM, but us who have moved!! Hope you and family are doing well during this season of light!
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dettinger47
December 15, 2020
You spoke for me as well, Maxine. I also fall prey to the distractions of this world.
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heavensreef
December 15, 2020
YES David……ahh every single day. Wish I could lock myself up in a room all day with my Bible sometimes, but life just doesn’t work that way. So there is struggle between the Spirit and the flesh!
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dettinger47
December 15, 2020
So true. A sad Amen.
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dawnfanshawe
December 15, 2020
excellent post. God is so gracious though and so incredibly patient and He does not treat us as our sins deserve. However, you made me think of what I have received since I have obeyed and set aside my time to sit in the presence of God every day again… It was intermittent and casual, but I knew God wanted me to devote the time and space – He used to say, “Can you not stay awake with me for one hour” Eventually I said yes, and the peace, the joy and the refreshing and inspiration I now have is phenomenal! I’ve heard it said, but it is really true that we cannot outgive God in any area of our lives!
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dettinger47
December 15, 2020
Thank you for sharing this, Dawn. Amen!
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